bellaphira (![[info]](http://l-stat.livejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif){kind=small} bellaphira) wrote,@ 2007-07-26 04:26:00 |
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Questions Questions Questions
1. Leave me a comment saying anything random; a favorite song lyric, your favorite kind of sandwich, something random, whatever you like.
2. I respond by asking you 5 personal questions so I can get to know you better.
3. You will respond to those 5 questions in YOUR LJ.
4. You will include this explanation and offer to ask someone else in the post.
5. When others comment asking to be asked, you will ask them five questions.
Quetions from hellowanida:
1. What have you been up to since you graduated? (I know that's a long time, so tell me the most recent)
All sorts of stuff. Went to BGSU for a year and a half to study computer science, freakin' hated every minute of it (college life is NOT for me) Got married at 18 to someone I thought was the love of my life. Was not a bad relationship until he realized he liked playing the single life even though he was married and ended up cheating with someone who called herself my best friend (drama drama). Divorced him after nearly 4 years of marriage, got totally screwed during the divorce because he lied to me and I "just wanted it to be over". Went from being totally taken care of (the ex had a great job, we had a house, I didn't have to have a job) to having to support myself (though my parents did let me move with them). Went from no job to working full time + a shitload of overtime (got promoted from peon to assistant manager after like 2 months at Subway). Went through a bit of a slutty phase after the divorce, "dated" multiple guys at the same time (like I would go from one of their houses to the next guys in the same night....not a proud time in my life but I will admit it was hella fun). Met this really cool guy via Myspace named Oliver that I started to date but he wasn't ready for a relationship (he's actually still married, but his wife up and left him one day, but that's a whole other story). Then one of my exs contacted me via Myspace, one night me, Oliver, my ex and his current girl hung out. Me and the ex had a blast, saw each other a few times (on non drunken terms this time) after that, he left his girl to be with me and we got married like 2 months later. Renting a bitchin' apartment now in Perrysburg (we've made it into our lil home), he joined the Air National Guard in October (about a week after we got married) <--- he started the joining process before we got together because he was miserable with his life and wanted an out, then went through with it because he felt that it was the best way to provide us with the life we want. He left in March for basic and his technical training, and I've been livin' on my own since. He gets back in 6 days (woot woot) PHEW I think that's pretty much the big highlights
2. Are you were you imagined you'd be by now?
So far from it I laugh about it sometimes. I had this big life all planned out for myself: I would graduate high school, go to Case Western for pre-med, go to Harvard for med school, be done with school and a doctor by 25, get married to a fellow doctor around 30, have 2 kids (probably adopted, a boy and a girl), develop a cure for something by the time I was 40 and live the good doctor-y life.
Instead I stayed in NW Ohio for a boy, married said boy, divorced said boy and had to stop school because I paid for a hose with said boy and didn't get shit in the divorce.
3. Are you planning to do alumni band this year?
Hmmmm, dunno. That's far enough away I can't really plan for it. I might, I haven't played Silvio in so long though *eek*
4. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
I never really know what to say to this question because I like to think I'm pretty satisfied with the person I've become. I guess I would like to be a little more patient....sometimes I get in these moods where I just want to kick people :p
5. If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?
There are SO many places. I'd love to travel all around Asia: Japan, Korea, Thailand, the Phillipines (are they considered part of Asia...I'm pretty sure they are). Other than that I would love to go to England or Germany. Someday (when I'm rollin' in my phat doctor money...so like 30 years from now haha) I plan on traveling all over.
1. Leave me a comment saying anything random; a favorite song lyric, your favorite kind of sandwich, something random, whatever you like.
2. I respond by asking you 5 personal questions so I can get to know you better.
3. You will respond to those 5 questions in YOUR LJ.
4. You will include this explanation and offer to ask someone else in the post.
5. When others comment asking to be asked, you will ask them five questions.
Quetions from hellowanida:
1. What have you been up to since you graduated? (I know that's a long time, so tell me the most recent)
All sorts of stuff. Went to BGSU for a year and a half to study computer science, freakin' hated every minute of it (college life is NOT for me) Got married at 18 to someone I thought was the love of my life. Was not a bad relationship until he realized he liked playing the single life even though he was married and ended up cheating with someone who called herself my best friend (drama drama). Divorced him after nearly 4 years of marriage, got totally screwed during the divorce because he lied to me and I "just wanted it to be over". Went from being totally taken care of (the ex had a great job, we had a house, I didn't have to have a job) to having to support myself (though my parents did let me move with them). Went from no job to working full time + a shitload of overtime (got promoted from peon to assistant manager after like 2 months at Subway). Went through a bit of a slutty phase after the divorce, "dated" multiple guys at the same time (like I would go from one of their houses to the next guys in the same night....not a proud time in my life but I will admit it was hella fun). Met this really cool guy via Myspace named Oliver that I started to date but he wasn't ready for a relationship (he's actually still married, but his wife up and left him one day, but that's a whole other story). Then one of my exs contacted me via Myspace, one night me, Oliver, my ex and his current girl hung out. Me and the ex had a blast, saw each other a few times (on non drunken terms this time) after that, he left his girl to be with me and we got married like 2 months later. Renting a bitchin' apartment now in Perrysburg (we've made it into our lil home), he joined the Air National Guard in October (about a week after we got married) <--- he started the joining process before we got together because he was miserable with his life and wanted an out, then went through with it because he felt that it was the best way to provide us with the life we want. He left in March for basic and his technical training, and I've been livin' on my own since. He gets back in 6 days (woot woot) PHEW I think that's pretty much the big highlights
2. Are you were you imagined you'd be by now?
So far from it I laugh about it sometimes. I had this big life all planned out for myself: I would graduate high school, go to Case Western for pre-med, go to Harvard for med school, be done with school and a doctor by 25, get married to a fellow doctor around 30, have 2 kids (probably adopted, a boy and a girl), develop a cure for something by the time I was 40 and live the good doctor-y life.
Instead I stayed in NW Ohio for a boy, married said boy, divorced said boy and had to stop school because I paid for a hose with said boy and didn't get shit in the divorce.
3. Are you planning to do alumni band this year?
Hmmmm, dunno. That's far enough away I can't really plan for it. I might, I haven't played Silvio in so long though *eek*
4. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
I never really know what to say to this question because I like to think I'm pretty satisfied with the person I've become. I guess I would like to be a little more patient....sometimes I get in these moods where I just want to kick people :p
5. If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?
There are SO many places. I'd love to travel all around Asia: Japan, Korea, Thailand, the Phillipines (are they considered part of Asia...I'm pretty sure they are). Other than that I would love to go to England or Germany. Someday (when I'm rollin' in my phat doctor money...so like 30 years from now haha) I plan on traveling all over.
