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| 12:08pm 24/06/2025 |
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Because I ended up with a couple not so fond experiences I decided to add rules and whatnot(UGH, I hate rules, but obviously there's a need for them) And just so nobody claims they can't get a hold of me here is my email addy, for the billion-th time: rentgrl007@yahoo.com. And yes, I combine shipping :) 'cause I'm a nice kid!
1) NO trades....NO NO NO NO TRADES unless I initiate. I will say no, even if it's something I've been searching for my entire life.
2) IF (BIG IF) I decide to initiate a trade and we actually agree on something the packages will be sent out the same day (None of this "Well, I was waiting for your package" CRAP)
3) If you pay with Paypal (except for my international peeps...'cause the rules are a lil different for you) you will have to get Delivery confirmation (this is to protect my butt with Paypal, but you still have to pay for it), don't fret though I believe it's only about 40 cents!
4) From now on you also have to pay for insurance (sorry kids, but I don't want to end up with a lost package...or even a "lost package" and have no way that I can be compensated, I don't really make TONS of money off my sales, so if 1 or 2 go bad...I'm screwed outta money)
5) If I start to feel uncomfortable with negotiations...or just plain have a bad vibe...I will call the sale off (sorry, I should have listen to my gut more often)
6) Domestic (that means in the US) buyers get their choice of either: Priority mail - takes about 2-3 days, very reliable, I don't have to buy packing materials so you're paying just the cost of shipping (plus the insurance&/Delivery confirmation) or Regular mail-takes 3 days...sometimes more, if you get regular mail you have to pay the actual cost + $1.00-$2.00 for packing materials (depending on how much they cost me) + insurance&/delivery confirmation. PHEW. Anyway, I prefer Priority 'cause it's quick and I don't have to go shopping for shipping supplies.
7) International Friends, you get a choice between Global Priority and Airmail. Global Priority seems to be extrememly more reliable, somewhat quicker...but it costs significantly more. Airmail...I've been having troubles with, for some reason people are recieving their packages later than they should (maybe customs is being wonky...who knows), but it's cheaper. My international friends also have to pay for insurance :) just to cover all our lil bums!!
PHEW that was long and boring, yet necessary.
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| 12:07pm 24/06/2025 |
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I probably should put one of these here. I did send out like a bajillion packages :) so if any of you all want to say how wonderful I am, please do so here! :p |
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| Questions Questions Questions |
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| 04:26am 26/07/2007 |
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1. Leave me a comment saying anything random; a favorite song lyric, your favorite kind of sandwich, something random, whatever you like.
2. I respond by asking you 5 personal questions so I can get to know you better.
3. You will respond to those 5 questions in YOUR LJ.
4. You will include this explanation and offer to ask someone else in the post.
5. When others comment asking to be asked, you will ask them five questions.
Quetions from hellowanida:
1. What have you been up to since you graduated? (I know that's a long time, so tell me the most recent)
All sorts of stuff. Went to BGSU for a year and a half to study computer science, freakin' hated every minute of it (college life is NOT for me) Got married at 18 to someone I thought was the love of my life. Was not a bad relationship until he realized he liked playing the single life even though he was married and ended up cheating with someone who called herself my best friend (drama drama). Divorced him after nearly 4 years of marriage, got totally screwed during the divorce because he lied to me and I "just wanted it to be over". Went from being totally taken care of (the ex had a great job, we had a house, I didn't have to have a job) to having to support myself (though my parents did let me move with them). Went from no job to working full time + a shitload of overtime (got promoted from peon to assistant manager after like 2 months at Subway). Went through a bit of a slutty phase after the divorce, "dated" multiple guys at the same time (like I would go from one of their houses to the next guys in the same night....not a proud time in my life but I will admit it was hella fun). Met this really cool guy via Myspace named Oliver that I started to date but he wasn't ready for a relationship (he's actually still married, but his wife up and left him one day, but that's a whole other story). Then one of my exs contacted me via Myspace, one night me, Oliver, my ex and his current girl hung out. Me and the ex had a blast, saw each other a few times (on non drunken terms this time) after that, he left his girl to be with me and we got married like 2 months later. Renting a bitchin' apartment now in Perrysburg (we've made it into our lil home), he joined the Air National Guard in October (about a week after we got married) <--- he started the joining process before we got together because he was miserable with his life and wanted an out, then went through with it because he felt that it was the best way to provide us with the life we want. He left in March for basic and his technical training, and I've been livin' on my own since. He gets back in 6 days (woot woot) PHEW I think that's pretty much the big highlights
2. Are you were you imagined you'd be by now?
So far from it I laugh about it sometimes. I had this big life all planned out for myself: I would graduate high school, go to Case Western for pre-med, go to Harvard for med school, be done with school and a doctor by 25, get married to a fellow doctor around 30, have 2 kids (probably adopted, a boy and a girl), develop a cure for something by the time I was 40 and live the good doctor-y life.
Instead I stayed in NW Ohio for a boy, married said boy, divorced said boy and had to stop school because I paid for a hose with said boy and didn't get shit in the divorce.
3. Are you planning to do alumni band this year?
Hmmmm, dunno. That's far enough away I can't really plan for it. I might, I haven't played Silvio in so long though *eek*
4. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
I never really know what to say to this question because I like to think I'm pretty satisfied with the person I've become. I guess I would like to be a little more patient....sometimes I get in these moods where I just want to kick people :p
5. If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?
There are SO many places. I'd love to travel all around Asia: Japan, Korea, Thailand, the Phillipines (are they considered part of Asia...I'm pretty sure they are). Other than that I would love to go to England or Germany. Someday (when I'm rollin' in my phat doctor money...so like 30 years from now haha) I plan on traveling all over. |
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| I fucking hate the military |
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| 08:39pm 20/07/2007 |
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So now Cam isn't getting home 'til Wednesday August 1st at 12:35. Yes...it's only a day, but it's just one more effing day without him and I haaaaaaaaaaaaaaate it. |
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| 10:30pm 19/07/2007 |
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Today was Kara's funeral. I really hate to cry in public, and I tried to hold it in, but as soon as her sorority sisters did their presentation I was a mess. Then I bawled at the grave site and said goodbye to my lil goose, Sara said she'll forever be our freshman and that just made me cry more. I can't help but to feel a little hole in my heart, not just for myself, but for all the people that love her and were close to her. It seems unfair that tomorrow my life will pretty much be back to normal, but they have to live the rest of their lives with that burden. Like K said when her mom passed "Tomorrow all these people will go back to their lives, but I'll never have my mom again". Brings tears to my eyes just thinking about it. Not to say that I won't think about Kara from time to time, and not to say it hasn't affected my life...but it's nowhere near the impact it's going to have on so many people. There were so many people there I just wanted to hug, people I didn't even know, people I do know but not very well.
Wanida, every time I saw you I just wanted to hug you, but I thought it would be weird since we've only really gotten to know each other via the internet...so *internet hug* I am so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine the heartache you feel now. All I can say is the pain never goes away, but it hurts a little less over time. There are still nights I cry over the loved ones I've lost...
I do have a happier note to the day. I found out that Cameron comes home Tuesday July 31st at 12:35 pm, and he's flying in to Toledo (not Detroit, thank goodness!!). Hearing a date and a time just made my day so much better, 'cause I know he'll hold me and make me feel better in less than 2 weeks. OMG, I can't even explain to you the overwhelming joy I get just THINKING about being back in his arms, living our lives together again finally. 5 long effing months. I never want to do it again, my heart hurts so badly when he's away. |
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| He's coming home earlier than I thought!!! |
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| 11:41pm 18/07/2007 |
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My hubby is comin' my hubby is comin'! July 30th or 31st, depends on what day he can get his flight booked. He is graduating on the 30th though. I plan on taking off that Monday 'til the next Monday. So only 9 more days of work. Only 12 days 'til he gets home. Only 1 more Tuesday to get through alone!! Can you tell I'm flippin' excited.
The house smells like weed right now...and I'm buzzed as hell still. I get real quiet when I'm high, and frickin' thirsty but my green tea is so far away (it's actually sitting right in front of me but I don't feel like moving much)
Played the Wii tonight with Rach and her friend Chip. It was freakin' awesome. I kick serious bowling ass.
Bought the Lizzie McGuire Movie for me and Ollie to watch Friday. I'm quite excited. I really hope this weekend goes by quickly....hell I hope this week goes by quickly! |
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| drunken update!! |
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| 08:56pm 03/07/2007 |
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It's okay to drink alone...right? haha I'm not sure who else I'd drink with right now since my drinking buddy is out of town...damn I need to learn how to make friends! Does anyone know how people our age make friends? I mean...outta high school, working full time people? Seriously, I need to know. I'm a lonely kid for the most part.
Started playing World of Warcraft...almost typed Warcrap hahaha no freudian slip I swear!...again. I freakin' forgot how time-killingly fun it can be. I'm only at level 5 now *sad* I can't wait 'til...10...I think so I can get a pet! Woot woot.
I need to find hobbies that don't cost money....it's difficult
My husband comes home at either the end of this month or the beginning of next. We're both just trying to hang in there and not obsess (is that spelled right 'cause it looks wrong....) too much. It's hard : / I miss my manny SOOOOOO SOOOO much. I can't wait 'til he gets home so we can schnuggle every day and watch movies and just be a married couple. I try not to think about whether or not...or when he'll be deployed and we'll have to do it all over again. I wish he could get an assignment in Japan or Korea...or anywhere outside the US so we can move there and I could immerse (sp?) myself in a different culture...and basically run away from life. Is that bad? I know I have school to go to and I want to be a doctor someday, but I just want to get away. I'm sick of my job a bit : / I think it's that "I've been here a year...I'm bored" thing setting in. It's the longest I've been at a "real" (non-seasonal job)...a year and a half..I can hardly believe it. I'd drop it for a job in retail making the same in a instant though. I miss retail SO much. sub slinging is cool and all, but I love competition!
What else? hell I dunno. I need to take pictures of the apartment since we're moving in with my parents come December...My apartment is so fucking awesome, but we want to have money for a house and we're just making ends meet as it is : / I love this place...but if it means a house in a year or two I'll move out wiht the 'rents for a bit. I hope our sex life doesn't suffer :( *nervous*
Well, my pizza is almost done and I need another shot. If anyone near me every wants to chill or needs a place to crash feel free to stop by...I love the company even if we're both sleeping in totally different rooms (yes, I am for real that lonely) |
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| my lil picture post |
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| 09:45pm 23/06/2007 |
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I miss my man. It's been almost 4 months since he has been home...we've been married for 9 months now...so by the time he gets back we will have been marriend for 10 and he will have been gone for 5...that's half the time...isn't that crazy? I sort of hate the military a bit : / I'm proud of my husband though, he never ceases to amaze me!
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| Selling my puchilove boots |
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| 01:14am 08/12/2006 |
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Hey ya'll, just in time for Christmas I finally decided to part with my Puchilove rainbow star boots...I've only worn them in from of a mirror and can't really see myself wearing them out and about. They are a size 24.5 Japanese (an 8 US). I am looking to get $60 + shipping for them. Paypal is prefered.
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| My mini lives again!! |
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| 03:27am 12/10/2006 |
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Can I get a WOOT WOOT!! Apparently my ipod mini battery was just completely dead...and my USB cable was shot, so I just charged it up with a different cable for about and hour and he lives again!!! |
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| NEVER EVER use Alarm One |
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| 04:28pm 18/01/2006 |
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Seriously...I don't care if they were the last alarm company in the world and there's a drug/violence/etc ring being run in your neighborhood...NEVER EVER EVER Under any circumstances sign up with Alarm One...if you do, they will forever own your soul. That is all. |
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| What I'm craving |
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| 04:21pm 12/12/2005 |
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Waah waah poor me :p I want to go back to Japan just to have this again:
( click to see what this myseteriousness is that I speak of )
It's still up in the air whether or not we'll be going back to the good ole country of Japan. If we go...we still don't know what city we'll stay in (we plan on getting rail passes again so frankly I don't think it matters too much). I'd like to stay in Tokyo again at the sweet ass hotel we stayed at the 1st time we went: http://www.themansions.jp/ (they friggin' rock!) but I think Ry just wants to get a hotel in Osaka so he can hang out with his friends there *sigh* but I want this trip to be a me and him trip...not a "Ryan gets to visit all his little friends and Lisa just shops and feels leftout...which makes her shop more because she's an emotional shopper and you're letting her buy whatever she wants" I really want to see all the places we missed out going to last time! |
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| WARNING TO ALL |
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| 12:03pm 24/06/2005 |
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UPDATE: her LJ account is ___musicislife
I recently just went through an absolutely HORRID experience with a LJ user. Unfortunately I don't remember what her name on LJ is, however her email address (the account has been deleted) is rkome@aol.com. The address she had me send to is:
3714 West 117th St.
Cleveland, OH 44111
The story: we negotiated a trade where she was to send me a shirt and a pair of shoes, and I was to send a dress and a shirt (NWOT mind you). I sent out her package via priority mail Tuesday March 22 (having a bad gut feeling I opted to get Delivery Confirmation), she was also supposed to send priority. I hear nothing from the girl and do not recieve my end so on Monday March 28th I write telling her I have not recieved her end...to which she replies "ive never received yours. are you sure you sent it out? did you insure it?" I let her know firmly, but gently that according to the PO it was delivered March 24. We end up having a chat on AIM that basically boiled down to her going to send a MO to cover for the fact that I wasn't going to get my items. Okay, cool. Well, April 15th I recieve a package from her and it's my stuff that I sent her (mind you I heard nothing back from her saying she was sending the package back) and a note that says she found the package in the bushes while she was mowing. Great, right? I have my stuff...everyone should be happy. Except! The clothes she sent back had BAD staining all over them and reeked of smoke...which makes me thing 'hmmm, maybe she wore them'. Which leaves me with 2 items that I probably won't be able to sell (I'm trying to remove the stains now)...and even if I did sell them it would have to be for less now because they are no longer considered new. I have attempted to email her, but it bounced saying the user is no longer registered (great...). So, hopefully I'll help out someone here. She tries to trade with clothes from her aunt's closed business. I can post pictures of the clothes she was swapping if anyone is interested in that info. Thanks for reading this, and remember to cover your bases! (Delivery confirmation is your friend!) |
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| Yeah :) |
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| 05:35pm 03/06/2005 |
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Here's all the stuff I will be posting within the next few weeks for sale:
If it looks like a lot...it's 'cause it is (though my manga and Hello Kitty dolls will not be for sale...sorry kids!) I hope you understand now why it's taking me so long :p
and on a happier note: I have off work Monday so if I'm not feeling better by Sunday I'm going to the doctor! Yippee!! |
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| I'm baaaaaaaaaaack |
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| 11:37pm 29/05/2005 |
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After a very long flight (with me coughing insanely the whole time...being sick sucks ass) I'm finally home...it's so nice to sleep in your own bed again! I'm still pretty zoned out because of jet lag, being sick and being doped up on American drugs, so I'm not gonna do an update now...but look for one sometime this week.
OH, and I'm canceling the meetup in Columbus...due to lack of interest (so it seems) I might reschedule it for later in the summer |
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